this morning my 9 year old daughter decided to push my patience ,she refuse to get dressed for school ,started screaming at me and throwing things around upstairs.finally i flipped when she called me a stupid cow ,i was about to wash her mouth out with soap then i softened.I get very upset when my kids are rude to me and i need to find a way to tackle it ,I'm under enough pressure at the moment ,i feel like taking them all to there dads and leaving them for a week ,ive been married twice so there are 2 dads involved ,i still cant quite believe im on my own bringing up 4 children ,i have 2 hours to relax before they come home .